As with many things in life, my mom and dad are my inspiration. It was at their recent funerals that my idea began.
For both occasions, my sisters and I worked very hard to ensure that the day was uplifting for everyone. Even though we were experiencing intense sadness, their funerals were truly a celebration of beautiful lives that meant so much to us and to other people.
Because I am a photographer, I tried to take my own pictures, but was too busy talking with people or taking care of other matters. I really wish we would have had someone there who could have photographed all of the gorgeous flowers, the food presentation and centerpieces that were lovingly put together, the memory table display we made, and the funeral service itself because my sisters and I spoke, and all the grandchildren sang a beautiful song. Most importantly, I wanted to have pictures of our beloved relatives and friends who came to support us. I wish I had an album that I could look at and smile as I saw pictures of their final celebrations.
This is the service that I now want to provide for other families.